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do not want to adopt
i can tell yoou my experience..i am in the same position. infertile, but i could never adopt..even though my husband is adopted. my reasons are that i seen him struggle almost his whole life wondering who his birthparents were, i couldn't deal with raising and loving a child as my own, knowing in the back of his head he sought to find his "real"parents.. would feel like a stab in the back. i just couldn't deal with those emotions. i know it sounds selfish, but those are just my feelings
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