[mckenna]

i am with shoshana, i know all the intellectual reasons why adoption is not for everyone. and i would never want a child placed in a family that did not think adoption was a wonderful way to build a family, nor am i trying to judge this particular couple. i am mostly surprised by my strong reaction to this.

but.... my selfish, self-centered side is very insulted by this.

i (to the best of my knowledge do not have fertililty issues, unless you consider no husband as an infertility problem, lol) so i have to say i cannot speak from someone who has ever even tried to have a biological child, but for some reason, i am just bothered that someone might consider my family undesireable. i know that is completly not rational on my part, but for some reason that has really been bothering me.