needing alot of help how to deal with having placed an adopted child in a RTC
I am having a really bad to today. We adopted a sibling set Now ASis 10 and AD is 11 in 2003. At the beginning of this summer we found out our AD was sexually assaulting our AS. We just got her placed into a RTC that helps sexually abused children and children that have attachement difficulties. I am having a hard time today because we have to go to court on Thursday and admit that we have neglected them (only because that is the only way to get Federal Funding to help pay for the RTC). My husband and I have given our children only everything that they need and want from day one and now to think we have to admit to something that we have not done is killing me. Also the Daughter we thought we had is totally different. I am having a hard time thinking about seeing her and dealing with her lieing and her two personalities is really bad too. Any words of wisdom?
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