[sugarbabysmommy]

"I'm giving him a chance to be reasonable..."

"...that this guy just wants us to learn and understand some things. Fine, but if we get a bad report, I can't accept that-because WE ARE worthy and qualified to raise a child-no matter what it say's in the text books this guy reads,..."

These two statements imply there was a disagreement, or a butting of heads over ideas about childrearing. Can you give specifics?

We too had reading we needed to do, and didn't really mind. We passed on our books to our family so they could read if they like.