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Just a suggestion -- why wait two weeks until you see him again and he does it to you all over? I would call the agency and tell them that you are having a very hard time connecting with this person and that you feel he is being unreasonable in his expectations. Tell them that you find his demeanor offensive and tell (don't ask) them that you feel it is in your best interest to have another SW assigned to your case. Tell them that you would appreciate their assistance in the matter and that you would like to have your file (with everything that is currently completed) to be assigned to a new SW. Specifically state that this man makes you fell as if you and your wife are on trial and that he is condescending and unable to communicate effectively with you.

How does your wife feel about this person? Would she support the decision to ask for a re-assignment? Of course, if you've already put up with him for awhile and you only have to see him one or two more times, then I guess you could stick it out. Of course, as another poster mentioned -- you will have to deal with him post placement if you don't dump him now.