Are there specifics that he disagrees with?
I certainly don't think adoptive parents should have to hold all the same views as the caseworkers. But w/o knowing the specifics, I just don't know what to think.... I mean, if you mentioned that you never plan on telling a child that she's adopted, that would give me pause, too. If you said you were going to discipline your kids with a good old-fashioned whipping, that would give me pause, too.
I'm not saying this is what's going on, just wondering which views are in question here, before I condemn this guy.
BTW: in PA you CAN appeal if you "fail" a homestudy. Not sure what state you're in, but I'd check with an attorney.
Nicole