I have a bio son. I had him when I was 16 and did not get married until I was 24. I think having a son made it easier for my husband to bond with him when I met him. I think it is good for boys to have a good male role model. cliche I know but true. My son had my dad.
I think it is ultimately up to you. We are only wanting a girl. This is because I have wanted a girl since I found out I was pg with my son. Now that I have a choice I will get my girl
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