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Originally posted by stacyone
I have that problem with my in-laws.... I've come to the conclusion that they can say whatever they like in public or at their house, but at my house I'll call 'em on it. In addition, if they ever say anything in front of my daughter, I plan a pointed "Ahem!" and gesture to her. I hope they'll get the hint.
I'd love to say, "Oh, I'll just never talk to them!", but what does that teach Molly about forgiveness and unconditional love? It's actually a good opportunity to teach her that everyone has their own little quirks and flaws, and sometimes you just love them anyway.
Can't wait to hear what you decide to do!
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It's not a little quirk or flaw, like a chipped tooth. I am Latino, my husband white and we have had this conversation too. I have decided that what tolerating DOES teach is that racism is ok. Just like bullying, namecalling and other forms of inappropriate behavior, shaking your shoulders and saying "oh well" implies that it's ok. As others have said you doin't want to cause a rift with neighbors so I'd talk to them but as a person of color I'd not interact with them aymore, sorry.
