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I also think you should wait until it's more of a known.
We, unfortunately, didn't have that option since the agency
who did our homestudy sent a letter to my boss and to
DH's boss asking for a letter of recommendation (more relating
to our work ethic, potential drug/alcohol abuse, etc).
This really annoyed me since I didn't know they were going
to do that and we hadn't mentioned anything to our bosses
at that time. People who are trying to conceive don't inform
their bosses so I didn't think our agency should inform
them either! As it turned out, it really didn't matter. My
boss was an awesome woman who had experienced
infertility herself so was actually very supportive of our
efforts.
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