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Old 09-20-2004, 11:43 AM
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I agree with Jensboys. I think it's great that your daughter is asking these questions, and that you are answering them honestly, as soon as she is able to comprehend them. That way, there will never be a big "reveal" day, she will just always know. I think that the term "tummy lady" is cute and might be appropriate for her age, but it also takes away some of the respect you could feel, and teach her to feel, toward her birthmother. Like Jen said, it kinda gives the idea that she came from some tummy factory, and that her bmother wasn't a real person who loved her and wanted what was best.
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