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Tracy
Originally Posted By michelle
I read your first post. My heart goes out to you. We have just added two children to our family throug adoption. We have an older (7) daughter. The bonding does not always come right away. I love all my children. I didn't give birth to any of them but I would do anything for them. Sometimes when the younger two first came home, I was afraid I wouldn't love them like I love our oldest. It's been three months and I do believe I love them all with all my heart. Take your time, I know it's hard to think about now, but you must do what is right for all involved. That little girl has been through a lot, and she is testing you. Everyone she has known in her short life has rejected her. She doesn't want to get close to you for fear that she will lose you, that is why she is the way she is. I also know you can't force yourself to parent someone you aren't ready to parent. Please, pray and listen to your heart. The answer will come. You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless in whatever decision you make.
Michelle
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