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Spitz...I hope that I didn't sound like I felt that my children wouldn't be welcomed or considered my mother's grandchildren because they aren't genetically related to her. I just meant that they won't have the memories that you talk about having with your grandparents AND they won't be genetically related to her. As you all have said, this is just part of the sadness that I feel about losing my mom. I think I would even feel better if I had discussed adoption with her. I KNOW she would be totally supportive, but it is just one of many things I wish we had talked about. I think if I ever have a daughter, part of her name will be my mom's.
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