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aj2002 wrote..I feel like such a selfish witch right now, and I really just need to know that I'm not the only one.... I hope.
I believe that what you are doing is a healthy thing.. You are taking care of yourself in a very difficult situation..
I would not feel guilt about it..
When I first reunited with my bson I ended up wanting to send the grandbabies presents.. I would walk into a toy store and then walk right out again.. It all came welling up..
Then I found an online gift sending place.. (won't mention any names) and now I send them presents by clicking on a picture.. This place wraps the gifts and sends them..
So I took care of me..
And in reunion I take care of me.. If I can't handle the emotions I just back off..
What you have done is big..
Jackie
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