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Forgiveness
I just finished reading a thread in this forum about birthmoms refusing contact.. Or not wanting to work out the hard hard issues of reunion..
We want so darn much from each other.. Be it birthmom or adoptee or amom or dad or fill in the blanks..
Why does a woman become cold? (I would love some shares on that one) Why does she pick one child over another? Why does she abandon a seven year old and then keep the rest of her children? I don't think this can be answered.. I don't think it can be answered by the person doing the deed..
We act and re-act to life.. And some times we are ashamed.. And some times we just realize that we are weak and we allow others to control what we do.. How does one own up to all of that?
We are all human.. We all mess up.. We all need to get out of ourselves and see that no one gets it right.. I believe.
I would love to hear others thoughts on this.. here forgiveness thing..
Jackie
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