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GMH,
Truer words, were never spoken. But, did you ever explain to her what you mean't, maybe she misunderstood, and thought that you did not want to know the rest of the family. It might of hurt her feelings, maybe she thought you didn't think they were good enough to know. Maybe she thought you wanted to keep yourself secret, like you were ashamed of them. See, it could be read in a number of different ways. Not to mention, my friend, you have a way of comming across as rather gruff sometimes. I mean that as a person who has been talking to you for awhile, I sometimes have trouble knowing just what frame of mind you are in sometimes, it would be even harder to know, if we had only talked a few times, like you did with her. Maybe she just misunderstood. Not that I am defending her in any way, nor that I would ever agree with what she did, it just that everything can be twisted out of perportion, when emotions are so high. When you are in the reuniting stage of this crazy adoption business emotions tend to run quite high, I think even you, would agree with that. You tend to hang on every word, just because they are so important at the time. It is easy to read the wrong things, sometimes. I know, I have done it myself. Its not until the words are explained, that you understand the real way they were meant to be taken. I hope this makes sense. I know what I want to say, just am having a hard time saying it. Talk to you later.
Colleen
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