[ddhuab]

In that case, I don't think it sounds like such a bad idea... it could provide some happy memories for all of you (and maybe even be sort of a mini "family reunion" for some of the members of the family!).

Again, though, sit with it a while and you and dh trust your instincts. But in the end, open adoption is about the CHILD, so if you can get lots of photos of extended family and friends, this might help assure the child even more that his/her life was one to be celebrated.

D.