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husband issues
For the original poster - as I read your story, the thought occured to me that your husband may be extra sensitive either because he is a father to a child that was relinquished for adoption or he would have been a father to an aborted child. The issue of your lost son may be too close to home to him.
I know several women who searched & found their lost children lbut earned along the way their husband's were also fathers of lost children.
I often think the political reasons for keeping adoption records closed has very much to do with fathers missing in action.
In our own US Senate there are certainly birthfathers from the closed adoption era who would hate for it to come out that they not only fathered a child, they did not live up to their responsibilites and support their child.
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