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DO NOT FINALIZE!!!!!!
there are a couple of things too think about....one is...DSS might be preassuring you to finalize only to close their case..however, they will not remove her from your home because your not ready to finalize....why?...because there are not alot of families in line waiting to adopt her or take her in their homes....
also, if you do finalize out of guilt, you will be hurting yourself and your child....she can get more services while she is still in the care of the state vs...youre on your own now...good luck
again, DONT FINALIZE until you are sure this is what you want and what she needs.....
my heart goes out to you. i know how hard this all is, believe me....
tell them you want to wait a few more months and see where it goes...
they wont remove her...
dadfor2
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