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birth family wants to hold shower for us
the bf's mother wants to hold a shower for us ( meaning our birth mother and me) I am really unsure but i dont want to me rude to her we are having an open adoption so she wants to be a grand mother to the child so i can see her wanting to be involved but i dont know if this is normal, to far or what most of my family and friends are aprehensive as to her motives because originally she wanted the baby to be put in foster care till the b parents are older (bf is 16, b mom is 14). Now she has had a turn around. plus we have not even met her yet. baby is due 12-12 so she is wanting to plan a shower soon. i just would like to here what anyone thinks about this.
Thanks for reading Trudy
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