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We had a foster child much like her last year.. she had to be removed due to similar issues with faking illness and trying to be in control and other passive agressive things.. she was moved to another home for respite first.. then her therapist decided it needed to be a perm. move.. she did ok in respite for a few weeks but never did make it back to school (always "sick).. then she ended up back in residential treatment..
you need to go with your gut.. why adopt someone that you have no connection with?? maybe just keep her as foster or go ahead and disrupt.. this will give her the chance to possibly find a family thst she will connect with and you a child that you can connect with..
Good luck.. I know that this is hard.. on our end.. we ended up with another teen girl and we love her to death and are now seeking to adopt her..
Mandy
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