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Old 09-02-2004, 03:34 PM
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Question for Nelson re: Bmom letter

Hi and thank you for a great book! I've been reading it today and I'm having a problem with my Dear Bmom letter.
The letter is from ME, not my husband and I. All "I' and "We".
I've included all the necessary info and I think it's a pretty good letter, after edits suggested by your book and articles written by Birthmothers. But I can't seem to turn the wording from ME writing the letter, to my husband and I writing the letter.
Is a letter from the Potential Adoptive Mother enough, or if not (and probably not, I know)
help!

EXAMPLE:

Chris and I have been together for nine and happily married for six years. We met through work. I was a teller at his bank. It took me over a year to get him to ask me out, but on our very first date, I knew he was "The One"! We were married October 24, 1998 and started trying to have children right after our wedding. However, we soon found that I could not produce eggs capable of becoming babies. It was a painful time, but then a wonderful friend offered to donate her eggs to us. Thanks to her, in September of 2002, our son Flynn was born.

Thank you in advance for any suggestions!!

Lee
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