[kathycasa]

The whole process such a long journey. Our adoption is a semi open one I guess. Our bparents were from another state. When we were matched with them, they moved to our state for the last 4 months of pregnancy. We got to know them well. Although, we knew once they had this baby, they would return home. They had our number to call us anytime they wanted to check on our dd. At first, dh and I were skeptical, and they did call. But soon enough, the calls became more infrequent. From once a week to once a month to once every 3 to 6 months. I was always happy to hear from them to see how they were doing and just to know how much they loved our dd as well. Lo and behold, 2 years later, she became pregnant again, and we were honored that we were the first ones they called to ask if we wanted a ds!! OF COURSE!!! Now we have 2 beautiful children and we couldn't be happier. You never know what can happen. By the way, when they were here for the birth of our ds, we allowed them to see how dd was doing and they were even there to witness the first meeting between dd and ds. It was amoment I don't think any of us will forget. I suggest you leave your options open, and make your decision when the time comes. You will know what is right for you and your future family!! Sorry this was so long. Good luck to you and you dh!!!!!