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lisaann57 wrote..Then one day you find this dust covered box you put aways so many years ago. You open this box to find your child(ren), and all those buried feelings come exploding out , all over you , your family your entire life!.
I like what your friend said.. Its like a physical blow.. to me..
I used every bit of self help/emotional learning I could the day I reunited physically with my bson.. I stayed in the moment.. I did not allow negative thinking in.. Nope.. I just took it all in..
After that I ended up in a terribly negative place.. I wanted more.. I had my dreams..
I backed off.. He did not (does not) reply to email's right away.. He does not write long newsy letters that reveal so much.. I wanted that so darn bad.. But he is who he is..
I let him go again.. I had completion..
And he came back as a person who wanted to know me.. I needed to learn that..
What a great topic for a thread..
Jackie
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