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Kelly:
I have takent the liberty of pm-ing you regarding this topic. I also would add that although I am not an advocate of very open adoptions.......I strongly believe that whatever is agreed upon by all parties involved, should be done with the full intent of carrying through the arrangement.
This is why it is SO important to study what is YOUR comfort level, and to stick with it. Do not allow any caseworker or agency to 'talk you into a certain arrangement' (whatever that may be)..........saying that 'if you don't your wait will be longer', or 'you're depriving the child of something'. This is for you to consider ahead of time, and only fair to all parties involved.
Sincerely,
Linny
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