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I agree it's important to be honest... but I wanted to harp on numbr's point: A child is never totally yours. You always have dads, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and eventually that child grows and expands his or her social circle.
I think it's fine to need what you need. Some birthmoms don't want an open adoption. Everyone's different.
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A-father to four.
"First comes smiles. Then lies. Last is gunfire." Roland Deschain
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