[mtlover]

I am not sure what your experience is Robin1. I have to hope and pray that you are not an adoptive parent. In the unfortunate circumstance that you are, please know that your reference to the birthmother being an eggdonor is your misplaced anger at whatever circumstances that you are not happy in yourself. Also know that if you are an Adoptive mother and that is how you communicate that information to your child... it is extremely abusive even if you do everything else right. I am terrified of perceptions like yours... very tilted. I hope that you have read these postings and rethink your attitude towards birthmothers. I also hope that if this is what you truly believe that you get help to fix your wounds that are so obviously deep.

Addtionally, I want you to clearly understand that not all adoptive parents are wonderful and take good care of their children. Children have died in their so called "wonderful adoptive parents hands". Don't make the mistake thinking that just because someone is an adoptive parent that they are a good parent. There are many wonderful adoptive parents and there are many dysfunctional and abusive ones as well.

Gaylene,

I agree with a love what Iwells38 said about the purpose driven life. You are right where you are supposed to be! We love you and cannot wait to talk to you more.