[uabelle]

Hi,

I am brand new here, your help is appreciated. I am widowed since 1998, remarried since 2002. My new husband wants to adopt my children, 8 and 9. He is divorced since 1998 with two children, 10 and 12, to support from a previous marriage and he has joint custody.

Are there any aspects to consider that would affect his obligation to his birth children? Would his adoption of my children be considered a "material change of circumstance" regarding his child support to his bio children since he would have a "legal" obligation to my children? Would my children be entitled to his estate upon his death? Would I be entitled to child support in the event of a divorce?

I have a lot to consider and want to be as informed as possible before I speak with an attorney. I want to do the right thing for my children and ensure their future is protected. Any state specific links to laws about these issues in AL would be appreciated.

Thanks,