[Alexi Smith]

I don't know if this will help. I was adopted as a child my b-day falls on x-mas but my adoptive parents are Jewish. My bio parents are not. but I was adopted as a baby. My adoptive parents raised me jewish. At x-mas if we were home we only did Han. and b-day gifts. If we were away my parents would have a tree but it was not called an x-mas tree it was a Han. bush. My aparents would not have a x-mas tree under their roof. My sister who is their bio. child also celebrated with us. Now that she has her own family and her husband is Jewish they do not do x-mas at all. I on the other hand still do both my husband is not Jewish and we really just want are kids to experience it all. Then they can make a choice of their own. Just my experience. Good luck on yours. Alexi