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Keep your chin up ..... I know Catholic Charities is expensive. My husband and I have been searching for 5 long years for his birthfamily and posted on every board the internet had to offer.

After we received his Non-ID this past December, we realized there was only one last thing to do...... pay the $400 to Lutheran Social Services to do the search for contact. We have had nothing but wonderful things to say about them - keeping us informed on what was being done etc. Just 5 months after paying the fee, my husband's birthmom was located and contacted by them. Just a week ago, she mailed us a detailed 4 page medical history that the birthmom had filled out for him. She has also told the LSS search agent that she would definitely like to correspond with him (through the agent for now) in writing and exchange letters and photos. No amount of money could ever take the place of my husband's smile and excitement when he learned he had 2 younger brothers.

Many people don't know they have the right to search -- or even where to go to begin a search. It doesn't mean that they don't want to. Go ahead and vent your frustration -- it's good to release those feelings ... just don't give up hope!

Blessings Always,
Deb (adoptee's wife)