[bbunny1957]

Hi I'm new here. I've been reading and catching up on the conversation. I am a bmom of a 23 yr. old son. We reunited when he was 17 and too much for his adoptive mom to handle. He a-dad had just died and he was a mess. He lived with me for 2 years. Bonded with his brother and sister and a new sister I'd recently adopted. Before he left my fair state he left a grandchild. Then, he needed my help again and I flew to where he was in another state and gave him the information he needed to get into a rehab I had made arrangements with to accept him.

He's clean now. Living in a third state with a new girlfriend and child. I'm here with my other children, their children and his he left with the young lady and her parents. He reconciled with his A-mom and sister and hasn't spoken to me in a year. Last I heard was a Christmas when I received a card from the new girlfriend with a picture of them and their baby. He's never called. Not even to check on his siblings.

What hurts worst...the betrayal. He has reunited with his B-father and talks to him regularly. This wouldn't have been so bad if this wasn't the same man who denied paternatiy and left me penniless and pregnant. I could understand if I was being petty and bad mouthing his B-father. But I never have. So I keep the hurt to myself. Thank God for the children I have and rejoice that I get to be Nana to this one grandson that chances where not great I would ever know.

Keep the faith!!