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Hi Simone.
I haven't tried to contact my bdad since October. Believe it or not, he did stop by a couple of days before Christmas and leave gifts for the kids, but I wasn't here at the time. I wrote him a thankyou note and tried to call him, but got no response. In my note I once again gave him my phone number and told him he could stop by any time.
When I talked to him in October I mentioned that I was having problems with my hip joints and that I might have to have them replaced. The problems with my hips are due to the fact that I was born early. My bdad said "aren't you a little young for that? You are only 34." He didn't sound sorry about my problem at all. It makes me think he really doesn't care.
When it comes to my bsibs my bdad told me when I first met him that his kids only come around when they want something from him. Maybe there was abuse in their past. This is the first time I have ever thought about it.
Ann
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