Lorraine123,
Thank you (really!) for being so polite and real, and clarifying your post. I was expecting a real "lashing" based on some of the other boards I've seen on here (by other users)
I guess that my wife and I are fortunate that our son (even though he has been through a tremendous amount in his short life) does not have "full blown" RAD... I have gained a lot of insight about this over the last year, and I have seen how bad it CAN be...
I can certainly agree that many kids with RAD should not go to sleepovers at other's homes... as they truly cannot know how to deal with some things. Some kids with attachment issues can do this though.
Thanks for being a mom!
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