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Barbara,
I haven't tried calling him recently. The last time I called him was in October and I really got the deep freeze. When I called he wasn't at home and his wife said that she would give him the message. When I called a couple of hours later she said "I told you I would give him the message!" When he finally did call he acted really distant, as if he didn't want to talk to me. I think he only called back because he felt guilty.
I just don't understand how such a promising relationship could have gone so wrong.
Right after I met the youngest sister, I saw her in a restaurant talking to a woman, who I later find out was the sister who didn't want to meet me, and I overheard her tell our sister that she thought I was weird. Great, uh? Just makes me want to run up and give them a hug. Not!
But honestly, I would love to be part of their family. I just feel that nobody wants to let me in. My husband tells me to give it up, that it isn't worth getting hurt. What he doesn't understand is that I am already hurt. He comes from a loving family so he has no idea. My adoptive family was loving but my adoptive mom never let me forget that I was adopted.
Ann
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