I wasnt raised by my B/MOM and when I got to know her, it helped me through alot of my own anger..... but.. I will always love and care deeply for the families that did take care of me. That is something that can never be replaced.... Dont worry, dont treat this like a divorce or it wont be good but speaking from my heart she needs you to listen when she wants to talk about her B/Mom and Talk gently when she cant, she has to feel that void.... you been ther for her this far, STAY put be yourself!!
If you ever want to talk email me, searching for my sister who was adopted....9-2-73.
Riki