[Jennys birthmom]

What a hard time to be going through...being a bmom, I can say that just know that she loves you and always has.

You know what I want to know are silly little things like, what you like to eat, do you read, are your interests anything like mine, are you a well adjusted adult? Are you angry? Are you sad? Asking her questions might also opent he door up for her to feel comfortable in asking you questions, I hope that makes sense. I think that there is a deep sense of guilt and hurt when we think that maybe the child was not treated as they should have been in our eyes, those things are all good to know and what movies you like and do your write with your left or right hand? There are so many little things that I want to know. So for me the little things the everyday things that are important and part of who you are, those are important. I want to know my daughter and her likes and dislikes, her fears and her joys. That will be a hard thing to do but I am going to try. I get to go meet her tomorrow for the first time. I gave her up 8 years ago, so I am very excited. Just some thoughts on things she might like to know, oh yea and honesty on your feelings and thoughts will be the best thing for the healing process for the both of you.

Take care and good luck with the letter. Just remember she loves you, and you have always been her daughter.