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GMH,
Now don't get all cranky with me, I'm on your side. I did not say anything about bond, I just said that I always wanted to know about my daughter, not anybody else. Everybody is different, I know there are mothers out there that don't care at all, I just happen to not be one of them. I have 6 other childrens, whom I worry about every time they leave the house, so it makes sence to me that I would think about my first child too. I was saying, that I can not understand these woman, who have children that they don't care about. I have all kinds of respect for amoms, they chose to mother children, who may or may not have had a better life. I think you need to figure out who you are really mad at, and direct that anger towards them. When you open the door, and ask for advice, you have to be willing to accept it. Not everybody see's things the way you do, but again, you opened the door. All these people are trying to do, is to help you get through this. You might want to be alittle more understanding. If you want to talk, not yell, not blame, we are here.
Colleen
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