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Originally posted by Howdy
I think it is interesting that after 5 years of dating, your girlfriend is insecure about your trip. Are there any reasons why she would worry? I wouldn't be thinking about getting married to someone who didn't know me better than that after 5 yrs. Unless maybe she is aware of your feelings more than you are.
Very puzzling.
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hmm... in a similar but different light... my parents have been my parents for 30 years and when i returned to korea, had similar insecurities to the gf. time doesn't necessary affect the level of insecurity one may have.
second... awesome original post. from someone who was in similar shoes, i have much respect for holding onto your thoughts and feelings about your identity. if you are happy the way you are... disregard those who tell you to be or feel different. i hope the trip is bearable... and my only hope is that you keep an open mind. take care...