Maybe someone has the wrong end of the stick on this one ,what I mean't to say was don't agree that things happen for a reason.Too much in my life has deicated this not to be true.My family doesn't need rebuilding (wife&son),what does need building is the relationship between myself and a mom.Thats being done which is good and we speak alot more now than ever before.I don't actually think my B-Mom will come around as it was put I think its all been too much ,its a shame but her loss,I don't see why I should leave the door open either that would be my fault if I got hurt again.No one has replied to my question what do we actually achieve from building a relationship with our B-parents ,I'm either ignorant or just don't understand.Anyway you
guys have helped alot just by talking which has put me in a better
mind when talking to A-Mum.It also makes me more determined to be as close as I can with my son.
