[mirahmirah]

thanks Chris. i can deal with loosing my parents. They were 78 and 85...it's loosing my 27-year-ols that is the hardest. we had such a very short time together. I AM fortunate to have at least met her. I know birthmom - and more so adoptees - who only find a grave at the end of their search - never get to meet their long lost family member. what a shame. Adoption REEKS (being polite so i don't get censored).