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Thank you so much for the reply. I didn't have time to put the specifics on my post. This is my sister's child. Most everyone in my family is for it except my brother-in-law who has flat stated that he will walk if my niece gives the child to us. He wanted her to abort it and now that he knows she wont he wants her to give it to someone out of their state and out of their lives. He is an alcoholic and I know my sister will be hurt for a long time, I think it is best that he does go. Our parents are for the adoption, our grandparents are for it, my sister is for it and my niece is considering it. I worry about things like her changing her mind, wanting it back in ten years. I am a bit nieve (sp?) and feel that all will be well - I just need someone to play devils advocate and say - hey, watch out for this. What about a lawyer? How much is an adoption going to cost? There are just so many questions. I do hope and pray that all works out for the best with your family and your situations.
God Bless
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