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My husband and I are 39 yo and we have three beautiful girls - two 12 yo and an 11 yo. I know we are in line for a psychiatrist visit, but we are TTC, unsuccessfully in the last five months. Recently we found out that my 15 yo niece is pregnant. Her and the BF have been going back and forth with keeping and putting up for an open adoption. At first she would only give it up to us, then said it would hurt to much to have it raised as her cousin. I assured her that it would be raised knowing she was the **. She is warming to the idea. I have many concerns and was hoping that anyone with experience would share what they know and give any advise. Thank you