I would write a letter letting her now how M and K are doing and send a couple of cute pics. Tell her that you wish her well. Let her know that when the kiddos reach a certain age they may wish to contact her and that you and your dh will be supportive and behind that. Tell her that right now you need some space b/c the kids are still healing from all that went on in the past. Maybe you could offer to write every Christmas to let her know how the kids are doing and send a picture or two. I don't know... it is totally up to you. Just thought I'd give you my thoughts.
Congrats on adopting your two kiddos! Best wishes to you and your family!
