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I would have to wonder why he is opposing the adoption. As one poster stated, there is a big difference between opposing the adoption and wanting to take full responsibility for raising a child.
Can the birthmom talk to him and find out more about why he opposes the adoption? I don't think it's your responsibility to talk to him about this. If contact is going to be initiated with him, it needs to come from the birthmom or from your agency or attorney. Then, if he is notified that the birthmom is planning to place the child for adoption, he can step forward and formally assert his rights. If he does, then I'd back off and let the biological parents work out the situation. If he doesn't, then I'd consider moving forward, but only if it feels right to you.
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