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Wow...that's a tough one.
I don't really have a good answer to your question. Do you have any more information about the birthfather? In our case, the bfather expressed a desire to parent, but we think that it's more a matter of his thinking that by fighting it, he'll be able to get out of jail for court battles.
If he does have the means and truly wantes to parent the child, I would say that as tough as it is to hear, he does have that right. And before you get too involved both financially and emotionally, I would really think about that.
I've always felt that whatever is meant to be will happen. I'll be hoping that it turns out that way in your case.
Best of luck to you--
Sally
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