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Originally posted by sadiegirl
I wanted to add that it has been mentioned a couple of times how we should do the profiles b/c what if we miss out on a match. Our agy does not send out profiles until they have ALL of them (meaning if they are working w/25 couples and let's say one couple needs to make more, they wait until that couple turns them in before handing them out) How do I know? B/c that happened to us in June! It ironically resulted in a mtg w/a bmom, but she chose another couple. So, there's no fear of our profile NOT going to a pbmom.
Tina
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Hi Tina,
This does not sound right. I'm thinking maybe your problem isn't with the profiles so much as this particular agency. They should not withhold a pmatch from you just because you don't have all of your books in. If you only have one left it should still go out to a pbirthmother.
Our facilitator liked us to have at least 25 in their office at all times, but they always used what they had even if we didn't have all 25 in at once.
Also I know exactly what you mean about it being great that your profiles are being seen a lot but no one is choosing you. DH and I went through that too. You know the questions...Why aren't we being chosen? What's wrong with us? How come no one likes us? Is something wrong with our profile? ETC...
Try to look at it this way though...each profile that goes out brings you that much closer to your perfect match.
I know the waiting is so hard!
Judy