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Thanks to everyone who has posted; you all make some good points, which is what I needed!
I guess I am just feeling a little uneasy at our agy. It seems to me that giving a profile to a pbmom who is due in March is rash. (But, I don't know, is that how it's done?) I mean, if she's due in March she's about 8 wks pg! To me, that seems very soon to know you want your child placed for adoption. (But I am not a pbmom, so I don't know! I always assumed *most* bmoms made their decision in the 3rd trimester)
It just seems to me that if a pbmom is due in March, that our agy is sending profiles to anyone who calls. I KNOW, I KNOW anyone who calls could be "the one" for us!
I know you all think I am crazy ("how could she not wanna do this? This could result in a match for them!") Trust me, we're just frustrated with waiting, even tho it's been 7 mos, we've been infertile for 8 yrs, so this just seems REALLY LONG for us.
Amom: you're right, this means that our profiles are being seen alot, but I guess I am such a pessimist, to me it means, they're being seen but we're not considered "good enough" otherwise, we'd be matched! (Does that make sense?)
Here's to what kashi says: that I make all these profiles and we get matched, with essentially the rest going "to waste".
Sigh...
Tina
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