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I can't believe your children aren't allowed. Ours were in both adoptions! At any rate- our 1st adoption we met at a resturant. It was awkward - then I just said- "Ya know- this is sooo strange We've never adopted before.We don't really know what to say. Do you have any questions for us?" And it broke the ice- because they were scared too!
Our second adoption - we met at a park. Big Mistake! The kids were adhd with behavior issues. The park situation was so chaotic and had too much going on. They couldn't focus on anything- much less us. ( Our second meeting was better. We went to the aquarium.) Our third they moved in. Good luck!!!
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