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Profiles
Hello all!
I am in need of some advice! Our agy has requested that we make more "profiles/lifebooks". 10 more to be exact. This will make 25 profiles in the 7 mos that we have been "waiting". They also have 4 pbmoms right now who are due in Dec, Feb and March. I am balking somewhat b/c as much as we desperately want a child, we don't see the need to make more yet. (They have one of our profiles left). Plus, if 10 pbmoms came thru the door, we could make our profiles in under an hour! (Staples and Kinko's ;-)
I guess I am just wondering if any of you have been in this boat. I know DH and I are frustrated (we met a bmom in June, but she chose another couple) and we feel like if no one is due until Dec, what's the rush? (I'll probably go and make about 4 profiles just to cover us but I was wondering everyone's thoughts?) But yet, we kinda feel like when the agy says jump, we should say how high. There's that irrational fear that they'll think "Well, they must not want a baby THAT bad. Hmmm, let's put them on the bottom of the pile..."
Am I just overanalyzing?
Thanks!
Tina
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