[angiesavage1]

Wow! What a powerful message. Fortunately, my DH was on aboard from the beginning. Actually, adopting was his idea. We had gone thru infertility treatments for 3 years before finally being told that I couldn't get pg. But not before I went thru 7 months of clomid, a surgery & 2 procedures. It was my DH who finally said, "No More! You have been thru enough!" Letting go & deciding to adopt was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Adopting itself is stressful. I can't imagine having to convince not only yourself but your spouse as well that adoption is the right choice for your family. I hope the other posts were able to convince their DH.