MC..
WOW! yOur post really touched me. You have been through the mills. And to take on 3 grands..how loving that is.
I do not know where you live, but here in WA., the money did not matter. We just filled out the forms for our assets, etc. We had very little savings..
Also, because our grandson was special needs and was in the state custody, the adoption was paid for by the state and we also got adoption support via a check every month and also medical for him till he is of age.
my husband has a good job and medical, but I call these percs.
We had to go through the home study like everyone else but was relatively smooth.
I would be interested in having more contact with you.
my email is
Mom2Braxton@hotmail.com
My web site for my 4 year old son is :
http://www.geocities.com/mom2braxton/index.html
Please feel free to contact me..
Sarah